ok bad news that screw isnt even there it looks as if someone put a black rubber glue over the hole where the screw should go thats why i couldnt find it in the first place...can i get it from a parts store or can i use any screw that will fit in it
welcome to the world of being screwed over by a previous owner and get used to it.
You can get the screw with the o-ring on it from a VW Dealer (I seem to remember it as about $6). But before you do that you need to figure out how much RTV ("black rubber glue") the PO put in the hole.
Did he just seal it off or did he squirt enough in to seal off the air flow path as well. If the air flow path is sealed off then putting a new screw in isn't going to do anything for you.
I afraid the best thing to do now is to pull the throttle body off so that you can inspect the hole and remove all traces of RTV. It's not that hard to do. you need a new throttlebody gasket for when you put it back on. To remove it there should be one or two electrical connections for the limit switches, you'll have to disconnect the throttle cable, and then there are just 4 bolts that hold the TB to the intake manifold. Make sure that you use some PB Blaster on those first to help loosen any rust. The last thing that you want to do is to snap off a throttle body bolt in the intake manifold.
Steve