To press the shifter solenoid:
First you have to remove the shift knob.
I don't think my shift knob will come off in Park. It has to be in Neutral. If you break your shift knob trying to remove it, only green or blue ones are available new from dealers in the USA according to the online parts site that has lied to me recently. The bolts I needed were
so not in stock. Anywho, here is what they say about the knob:
CONSOLE.. Volkswagen (vw.com)
Post #1 shows how to reinstall the shift lever (knob) and post #4 shows how to remove it. It says in both posts that the shift lever has to be in Neutral but the picture in post #4 shows it in Park:
(7) How to Reinstall the Leather Transmission Shift Lever? | VW Vortex - Volkswagen Forum
See post #2 for the first step after removing the shift knob:
Then lift up on the chrome shift gate to try to pull the shifter surround including the wood up. You might be able to pull the rest of the trim up.
Mine is too new at only 20 years old to pry up that easily. I have only had it apart about 3 times. The tabs are too stiff to pop them loose up by prying the chrome piece. I have to remove the cupholders and pry up the shifter trim from inside the holes the cupholders live in. I can get it almost high enough to disconnect the connectors on each side of the switch bank without trouble. You have to almost force the harnesses up. It helps if the cupholders are out so you can reach inside to pry the connectors from the top with one finger and through the cupholder hole with the other. One hand on each connector.
If the shift knob is out of the way, you can pry the trim up enough to disconnect the mirror switch and the cigarette lighter connector. Then when it's up far enough, you can disconnect the antenna at the front. You also have to disconnect the ribbon cable to the shift indicator.
You will take all of this out of the way:
It will look like this on the bottom:
Here is the auction I got the images from:
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See post #5 below to show what it will look like if you are able to remove the shift knob in Park and all I mentioned. Then you can get at the solenoid.
If you break the plastic piece putting the shift knob back on, here is the part you need:
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Another member here (Phaeton4ever?) showed us this auction for the plastic part that breaks. I think it's a 3D printed part.