Try joining one of the Honda forums and seeing if they have a connection with a dealer. One of our contour.org members is parts mgr for a L/M dealer in Vegas. He gives a nice discount to members and his service is top notch.
For parts, look no further than Majestic Honda.
For OEM accessoried, as mentioned above, H and A.
I've ordered from both, they are very good to do business with. http://****************.com/smile/emthup.gif
HParts.com has the best prices and service: http://www.hparts.com
A&H and Majestic are decent, but they're usually a little slow on getting things shipped. Just don't buy from Manchester Honda. In my experience, they are extremely slow to ship and consistently send the wrong parts. I've lost several good customers because of them.
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