alright i'm running 90/100s in my single round grill. of course i need to relay them so that i can preserve my switch and the wiring. now i hooked up the relays properly t30=batt, t87=to headlight, t85=ground, t86=from switch. now the relays are 4 prong but i don't think that it should matter. the problem is that when i switch the lights on the relays switch on but when i turn the switch off the lights stay oni have to disconnect the relays for the lights to go off. both high and low beams do this. why is this and how can i fix it? help please!!!!!